This is the rob blatt blog.

A friend asked me how I was doing today and I responded with “I’m planning a wedding.” I knew what they were asking, but it seems like the wedding is the only thing on my mind at times. The wedding is important, super-hyper-mega important at that, but it’s not the only thing happening in my life.

I try to balance my thoughts when I feel overwhelmed by the wedding. For instance, I’ve called the town of Piermont, NY multiple times with no response as of yet. There are certain things that I shouldn’t think of between e-mails, when things are out of my hands, they are out of my hands. I can double check things, like if they got a check or if they are on deadline, but I can’t badger them into doing things faster than they are used to. Everyone’s a professional that we are dealing with, we’re almost done with vendors, but I’m not a professional.

How do I stop thinking about the parts of the wedding that are out of our control without stopping caring about it? I’m not sure yet.

Is it bad to look forward to the wedding being over? I’m struggling with that a bit because it seems like the wedding has been eating my brain for months now. I know that my constant worrying about how things look or what I think they should be like is annoying to Amber, but I told myself that I would care at the beginning and I still do now.

OH well. I love my wife-to0be and that’s the important part. The wedding will be great no matter what happens because I’m gonna be married to Amber on Mat 5th. 2007. She’s the best and I know it. Every day with her is awesome and I’m looknig forward to putting another ring on her finger soon.